Stories from mob who have lived with Cancer
Cancer Australia have spoken to people out in your communities so that we know how people have coped with finding out they have Cancer, and what helped them get through being sick. Remember you are part of the world’s oldest surviving culture.
Our people are strong, especially when we work together.
Here are some of the stories that people told us out in Community.
"When I was diagnosed I was only 32. I’ve got three kids. So that was scary, thinking you’re going to die. When the doctor told me, I got drunk, smoked, couldn’t face up to it. Later I cried my guts out. Then I thought, “I’m not going to let this get me. I’ve got to show these kids my inner strength.” So I’m still sitting here now. I feel lucky that I’m here. I’ve got my kids and I can watch them grow up”
Belinda – 32 year old Aboriginal Mum
"When I found out my mum had cancer, I stopped talking to her and I got angry with her. My partner said, ‘If you don’t talk to her now, if anything happens to her, you’re never going to forgive yourself.’ I thought, ‘Yeah, he’s right.’ So I started talking to her. ”
Vicky – Mum is living with Lung Cancer
Having cancer can be a time to connect with people in community who have been through the same thing
"When I found out there was an Aboriginal support group, I thought it would have been good for Dad and me."
- Claire, sister of a woman who died of breast cancer
The thing mob with cancer want others to know is:
Don’t give up. Stay positive. Get regular check-ups. Ask questions.
The most important thing you can do is keep talking when you feel up to it.
To your family, your friends and your doctor.
If your Doctor or Nurse give you info on who you can yarn to, remember they are there to make sure that you have all the help you need.
Lots of people all around Australia and the Torres Strait find out they have Cancer and there are heaps of great things that Doctors and health workers can show you to help you deal with Cancer.
If you are ever not happy with how you are treated, you have the right to find other people to help you. You have the right to complain if you are not treated right – see this page about health rights.